SELECT 
  p.product_id, 
  ifnull(
    count(dp.post_id), 
    0
  ) as discussion_amount_posts 
FROM 
  cscart_discussion 
  INNER JOIN cscart_products as p ON (
    cscart_discussion.object_id = p.product_id
  ) 
  INNER JOIN cscart_discussion_posts as dp ON (
    cscart_discussion.thread_id = dp.thread_id 
    AND cscart_discussion.object_type = 'P'
  ) 
WHERE 
  dp.status = 'A' 
  and p.product_id in (
    349736, 349943, 358420, 355716, 351470, 
    352364, 354432, 354737, 358745, 349826, 
    352111, 352597, 354793, 355136, 358867, 
    359065, 352613, 354825, 357476, 354601, 
    356325, 359419, 351436, 352333, 354866, 
    355987, 356197, 351538, 351595, 354545, 
    355124, 355811, 358485, 358866, 349896, 
    351591, 352307, 355889, 352480, 352507, 
    356296, 356615, 357642, 358415, 351551, 
    355742, 357553, 359053, 351448, 352528, 
    354847, 355899, 356640, 359091, 352724, 
    354785, 352671, 358340, 352149, 352672, 
    353117, 357503, 352217, 352560, 356354, 
    356586, 352556, 355069, 355667, 352670, 
    349905, 356488, 358706, 349816, 351266, 
    352110, 352212, 352475, 352344, 352504, 
    352721, 354787, 355097, 355903, 355937, 
    356238, 356448, 351347, 351354, 351820, 
    352134, 352727, 354376, 356478, 358976, 
    359011, 352476, 352557, 352594, 352756
  ) 
GROUP BY 
  p.product_id

Query time 0.00124

JSON explain

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      },
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            },
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            ],
            "attached_condition": "(`webmarco`.`dp`.`status` = 'A')"
          }
        },
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        },
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