SELECT 
  p.product_id, 
  ifnull(
    count(dp.post_id), 
    0
  ) as discussion_amount_posts 
FROM 
  cscart_discussion 
  INNER JOIN cscart_products as p ON (
    cscart_discussion.object_id = p.product_id
  ) 
  INNER JOIN cscart_discussion_posts as dp ON (
    cscart_discussion.thread_id = dp.thread_id 
    AND cscart_discussion.object_type = 'P'
  ) 
WHERE 
  dp.status = 'A' 
  and p.product_id in (
    358369, 358728, 358826, 352229, 352514, 
    354424, 354429, 357436, 357598, 357601, 
    358801, 350114, 355753, 357812, 352323, 
    354368, 354613, 351386, 351396, 351532, 
    352624, 356082, 356464, 357453, 358599, 
    358840, 352233, 354354, 356667, 358408, 
    358457, 358990, 352358, 352615, 354985, 
    358958, 358991, 352429, 355020, 355042, 
    355133, 356592, 356676, 357463, 358831, 
    358984, 351403, 351620, 357142, 358382, 
    351598, 352319, 354856, 355668, 357528, 
    351323, 351370, 351435, 352362, 354450, 
    354648, 354877, 356424, 356425, 357146, 
    358620, 358920, 351473, 352353, 352591, 
    354399, 354644, 354769, 355676, 355678, 
    355747, 358811, 352510, 354970, 356100, 
    356289, 356603, 358849, 352350, 352586, 
    355053, 356050, 357467, 358275, 358462, 
    358882, 351285, 351474, 354440, 354517, 
    355086, 355612, 355852, 355866, 356002
  ) 
GROUP BY 
  p.product_id

Query time 0.00095

JSON explain

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      "using_filesort": true,
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      },
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            },
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            ],
            "attached_condition": "(`webmarco`.`dp`.`status` = 'A')"
          }
        },
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          }
        },
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            ],
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