SELECT 
  p.product_id, 
  ifnull(
    count(dp.post_id), 
    0
  ) as discussion_amount_posts 
FROM 
  cscart_discussion 
  INNER JOIN cscart_products as p ON (
    cscart_discussion.object_id = p.product_id
  ) 
  INNER JOIN cscart_discussion_posts as dp ON (
    cscart_discussion.thread_id = dp.thread_id 
    AND cscart_discussion.object_type = 'P'
  ) 
WHERE 
  dp.status = 'A' 
  and p.product_id in (
    396008, 395983, 395989, 414436, 414408, 
    431590, 431659, 359772, 359805, 309585, 
    431542, 396002, 431767, 431605, 396027, 
    431734, 359744, 309550, 359752, 396018
  ) 
GROUP BY 
  p.product_id

Query time 0.00102

JSON explain

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            ],
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            },
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              "thread_id",
              "status"
            ],
            "attached_condition": "(`webmarco`.`dp`.`status` = 'A')"
          }
        },
        {
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            },
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            },
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        }
      ]
    }
  }
}