SELECT 
  p.product_id, 
  ifnull(
    count(dp.post_id), 
    0
  ) as discussion_amount_posts 
FROM 
  cscart_discussion 
  INNER JOIN cscart_products as p ON (
    cscart_discussion.object_id = p.product_id
  ) 
  INNER JOIN cscart_discussion_posts as dp ON (
    cscart_discussion.thread_id = dp.thread_id 
    AND cscart_discussion.object_type = 'P'
  ) 
WHERE 
  dp.status = 'A' 
  and p.product_id in (
    263981, 264764, 264765, 264766, 264767, 
    264102, 264969, 264970, 264971, 264972, 
    264973, 264974, 264975, 264976, 264977, 
    366690, 366691, 366692, 366693, 366760, 
    366761, 366762, 366771, 366772, 366773, 
    366774, 366775, 366776, 366815, 366816, 
    366817, 366818, 366819, 366820, 366821, 
    366827, 366828, 366829, 366830, 366831, 
    366832, 366833, 366834, 366835, 366836, 
    366837, 366838, 371868, 377776, 371873, 
    377777, 377778, 377779, 371878, 377780, 
    377781, 377782, 377783, 371884, 377784, 
    377785, 377786, 371890, 377787, 377788, 
    371895, 377789, 371898, 377790, 377791, 
    371902, 377792, 377793
  ) 
GROUP BY 
  p.product_id

Query time 0.00095

JSON explain

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      "using_filesort": true,
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      },
      "nested_loop": [
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              "thread_id_2"
            ],
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            },
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              "status"
            ],
            "attached_condition": "(`webmarco`.`dp`.`status` = 'A')"
          }
        },
        {
          "table": {
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            ],
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            ],
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            ],
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          }
        },
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            ],
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            ],
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            ],
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