SELECT 
  p.product_id, 
  ifnull(
    count(dp.post_id), 
    0
  ) as discussion_amount_posts 
FROM 
  cscart_discussion 
  INNER JOIN cscart_products as p ON (
    cscart_discussion.object_id = p.product_id
  ) 
  INNER JOIN cscart_discussion_posts as dp ON (
    cscart_discussion.thread_id = dp.thread_id 
    AND cscart_discussion.object_type = 'P'
  ) 
WHERE 
  dp.status = 'A' 
  and p.product_id in (
    371843, 377765, 377766, 377767, 371848, 
    377768, 377769, 377770, 377771, 371868, 
    377776, 371873, 377777, 377778, 377779, 
    371878, 377780, 377781, 377782, 377783, 
    371884, 377784, 377785, 377786, 371890, 
    377787, 377788, 371895, 377789, 371898, 
    377790, 377791, 371902, 377792, 377793, 
    371905, 377794, 377795, 371912, 377798, 
    377799, 377800, 377801, 371917, 377802, 
    377803, 377735, 377804, 377805, 377806, 
    377807, 377755, 377808, 377809, 377810, 
    371936, 379177, 379178, 379179, 371941, 
    379701, 379702, 371945, 379703, 371984, 
    379707, 379708, 379709, 372021, 379711, 
    379712, 379713, 379714
  ) 
GROUP BY 
  p.product_id

Query time 0.00105

JSON explain

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      "using_filesort": true,
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      },
      "nested_loop": [
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            ],
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            ],
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            ],
            "attached_condition": "(`webmarco`.`dp`.`status` = 'A')"
          }
        },
        {
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            ],
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            ],
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        },
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            ],
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