SELECT 
  p.product_id, 
  ifnull(
    count(dp.post_id), 
    0
  ) as discussion_amount_posts 
FROM 
  cscart_discussion 
  INNER JOIN cscart_products as p ON (
    cscart_discussion.object_id = p.product_id
  ) 
  INNER JOIN cscart_discussion_posts as dp ON (
    cscart_discussion.thread_id = dp.thread_id 
    AND cscart_discussion.object_type = 'P'
  ) 
WHERE 
  dp.status = 'A' 
  and p.product_id in (
    395983, 395984, 395985, 395986, 395987, 
    395988, 395989, 395990, 395991, 395992, 
    395993, 395994, 395995, 395996, 395997, 
    395998, 395999, 396000, 396001, 396002, 
    396003, 396004, 396005, 396006, 396007, 
    396008, 396009, 396010, 396011, 396012, 
    396013, 396014, 396015, 396016, 396017, 
    396018, 396019, 396020, 396021, 396022, 
    396023, 396024, 396025, 396027, 396028, 
    396029, 396030, 396031, 396032, 396033, 
    396034, 396035
  ) 
GROUP BY 
  p.product_id

Query time 0.00122

JSON explain

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      },
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            ],
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            ],
            "attached_condition": "(`webmarco`.`dp`.`status` = 'A')"
          }
        },
        {
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            ],
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            ],
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              "idx_master_product_id"
            ],
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              "product_id"
            ],
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            ],
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            },
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